October 30, 2024

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BG’s Positively Speaking

“Boundaries”

Many of us flinch when the subject of boundaries is raised. They are often regarded as restrictive limitations, barriers to our advancement and future progress.

However, boundaries are a critical component in caring for our personal well-being, health and relationships. They provide the framework of acceptable behavior, helping people to understand what is expected of them in various contexts. Boundaries can be physical, emotional, or psychological, playing a crucial role in ensuring mutual respect and understanding in a variety of situations. Boundaries pertaining to personal space and physical touch. They help individuals feel safe and comfortable in their environment. For example, some people may prefer a handshake over a hug when meeting someone new. Respecting these preferences is key to maintaining positive interactions.

Recognizing and respecting others feelings and emotional states may require boundaries that help prevent emotional manipulation. For instance, setting an emotional boundary that restricts one person from venting their frustrations over another if it negatively impacts your own mental health. Psychological boundaries, related to thoughts, beliefs, and values, help individuals maintain their sense of identity and autonomy. For example, respecting someone’s opinion, even if it differs from your own, is a way of honoring their psychological boundaries.

Setting and maintaining boundaries requires clear communication and assertiveness. It involves expressing your needs and limits, and those of others, in a respectful manner and being willing to enforce them when necessary. This can be challenging, especially in relationships where boundaries have not been previously established. Ultimately, boundaries are about self-respect and respect for others. They create a framework for healthy interactions and help individuals navigate their relationships with confidence and clarity. By understanding and honoring boundaries, we can foster more meaningful and supportive connections with those around us.

Setting boundaries levels the Path Forward.

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“Hands”

Many people are familiar with the pen and ink drawing originally titled “Hands”. It was drawn in the 16^th century by German artist Albrecht Durer. Today it is more popularly known as The Praying Hands and is sometimes referred to as “Study of the Hands of an Apostle.” The work is currently stored at the Albertina Museum in Vienna, Austria. There have been numerous variations of the original, and they can be found hanging in the homes, churches, and gathering places of people from many persuasions around the world. Less well-known is the inspirational story behind the drawing. The story has two main characters, and the drawing is a tribute to the sacrifice, love, and loyalty of one to the other. This week’s video is less than five minutes and is the story behind this inspiring drawing. To view, click the video link, above and be inspired.

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The Silence

My girlfriend isn’t talking to me because I apparently ruined her birthday. I don’t know how I did that. I didn’t realize it was her birthday!

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After my husband and I had a huge argument, we did not talk for days. Finally, on the third day, he asked where one of his shirts was. “Oh,” I said, “So now you’re speaking to me.” He looked confused, “What are you talking about?” “Haven’t you noticed I haven’t spoken to you for three days?” I challenged.

“No,” he said, “I just thought we were getting along.”

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Milk the cow…!

After much urging by his wife, Uncle Joe applied for work on a farm. The foreman decided to give him a try and told him to milk a cow, equipping him with a stool and a bucket.

An hour later, Uncle Joe returned dirty and sweaty, with the bucket in one hand and the broken stool in the other. “Extracting the milk was easy,” he explained. “The worst part was getting the cow to sit on the stool!”

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Trivia Quiz

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Your Horoscope

For Amusement Only

Aries March 21 – April 19: You will need someone with more knowledge than you to complete a project. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.

Taurus April 20 – May 20: Your encouragement and understanding for someone lonely will bring about significant changes. Your time will be well spent.

Gemini May 21 – June 20: Pay attention to others’ dress and behaviour. Don’t be taken in by appearances; they can be misleading.

Cancer June 21 – July 22: Ensure clear and precise communication. There is a potential for misunderstandings.

Leo July 23 – August 22: Beware of being manipulated by flattery. Your happy disposition will help those around you to be more positive.

Virgo, August 23 – September 22: Compromise is the key to a good partnership. Show your ability to be flexible, and you will benefit greatly.

Libra, September 23–October 22: Someone is not willing to make a commitment. Let them go; there are others who are willing.

Scorpio, October 23 – November 21: The near future could be financially rewarding. Consider alternative business and investment strategies and weigh your options.

Sagittarius November 22 – December 21: A heart-to-heart conversation with a friend will draw you closer together. Fun times are ahead of you.

Capricorn December 22 – January 19: Some coworkers show some child-like tendencies. Use gentle authority to encourage them to engage in more mature behaviour.

Aquarius January 20 – February 18: A romantic dinner could be the start of a new relationship. Don’t hurry things; let nature take its course.

Pisces, February 19 – March 20: This week, patience and creativity are required, and you have plenty of both. A new opportunity could be in the works.

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Free Drinks

A man walks into a bar, and the bartender asks, “What’ll you have?” The man answers, “A  scotch on the rocks, please.” The bartender hands him the drink and says, “That’ll be five dollars.” “What are you talking about? I don’t owe you anything for this,” the man replies. A lawyer, sitting nearby and overhearing the conversation, says to the bartender, “You know, he has a point there. In the original offer, which constitutes a binding contract upon acceptance, there was no stipulation of remuneration.” Now ticked off, the bartender says to the guy, “Okay, you beat me for this one. But don’t ever come back here again!” A few days later, the same man walks into the bar. The bartender asks, “What do you think you’re doing here? I can’t believe you dare to come back!” The man says, “What are you talking bout? I’ve never been in this place in my life!” The bartender replies, “I’m sorry, but this is uncanny. I feel like you were here a few days ago. You must have a double.” To which the man replies, “Thank you. Make it a scotch.”

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Norman

Norman needed an immediate blood transfusion, or he would die. His blood type, however, wasn’t on record. So the doctors asked his wife if she knew. Telling her it was urgent to know to save his life. Tragically, she didn’t know his blood type, so they only had enough time left together to hold each other’s hands and say goodbye. She never forget how supportive Norman was. As he faded away, he kept whispering to her, “Be Positive, Be Positive!”  That was Norman! Always trying to inspire others.

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Have Ladder –  Will Travel.

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The Court House

Al was giving a tour of the local courthouse. There was a court case in recess as he showed the group around. Al showed them the lawyers, judges, stenographers, jury, and court clerks. “As you can see, a lot of different people are involved in making this system work,” he commented. At that point, a prisoner being escorted into court yelled, “But I’m the one who makes it all happen!”

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An Honest Fisherman

A Fisherman goes up to the fish counter and buys six trout. The fish seller asks “Do you want them wrapped, sir?” The Fisherman replies, “No, thank you. Could you do me a favour, though? Could you throw them to me gently one by one?” “Yes sir, I can, but why?” he inquired. “Well,” explained the Fisherman. “I have been fishing all night and all day. I haven’t caught anything. If you throw me those trout and I catch them, I can honestly say that I caught six trout when I get home.”

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It’s A (little-known) Fact

• Nutella was invented during WWII when an Italian pastry maker mixed hazelnuts into chocolate to extend his chocolate ration.
• In a 2008 survey, 58% of British teens thought Sherlock Holmes was real, while 20% thought Winston Churchill was not.
• Tsutomu Yamaguchi was in Hiroshima for work when the first A-bomb hit, he made it home to Nagasaki for the second and lived to be 93.
• A British man changed his name to Tim Pppppppppprice to make it harder for telemarketers to pronounce.

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The Last Word

Your life is your message to the world. Make sure it’s inspiring!

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